Humans, they are strange creatures. Despite having tongues and multiple languages to communicate, they are most cagy beings that are not easily fathomable.
Do you agree???
Many times, we meet people, show affection on our faces, yet, after some time, show their true colors of treachery and betrayal.
Are you suffering from the pain of disloyalty? The lines coming ahead are for you:
People Feel Abandoned When Fickle-Friends Show Their True Colors:
Have you been in such a situation ever???
If yes, you can better relate to how we feel as a person when someone changes their attitudes as per their needs.
Sometimes, the people doing so much for others start to question their efforts due to the wrong-attitude of others.
This is wrong!
How to Cope Up with The Pain of Disloyalty?
It is okay to feel pain, rather it is a blessing. However, suffering due to others’ betrayal isn’t worth doing.
You need to get over this trauma as soon as possible, or else regret will dominate your state of mind and take you in the forever escalations of woes.
1. Talk to yourself in the night:
Play a piece of soothing music and have a pep talk with yourself.
Instead of thinking about the past and replaying your convos with the pain-giver over and over again, you should have a pep talk with yourself.
Stand back from your situation and try to figure what mistake was happened from your side.
Give yourself a pat on the back and trust that you are not the reason for someone else’s wrong-doing.
2. Do not Remain Alone for Too Long:
When alone, getting self-pitying thoughts when you are going through a rough time is common.
Therefore, remaining alone is not a good idea.
Go out with friends, have food outs, and try to assure yourself, he or she wasn’t the only one for you.
You can also adopt a pet to keep yourself busy with his chuckles and giggles.
3. Go on A Trip:
Lastly, do not get isolated in your apartment, room, or home.
Get a hobby, and act on that.
If you don’t have so many friends, or you need time alone, make this me-time a happy time.
Go on a solo trip and vanish your sorrows in the beauty of nature.
Lastly, keep in mind that life is still beautiful to keep going than wasting on unworthy humans.
Live it to the fullest and be your own reason to smile and live.